Caring for Curly Hair: An Adoptive Parents Guide to African-American Hair Care
It is best to apply lotion at least once a day I like before bed or twice a day for really dry skin. You want to use the thickest, most serious lotion you can find. One of my girls has skin that is super dry, so I make a lotion for her out of shea butter and coconut oil. This can actually be a problem for some camp activities, you would think it was akin to child abuse to want your child to get a little Vitamin D. Some people have large, soft waves that a good conditioner and curl definer will tame, and others have curls so tight that you feel like you have to be an expert to work with it.
No advice I give can apply to all hair, so you need to experiment and try things on your own and see what works for you and your child. Other helpful tools include rat tailed comb or chopstick, small rubber hair bands, beads, braid spray, curl definer, coconut oil, satin sleep bonnet, satin pillow case this protects hair , clips for holding sections of hair, seam ripper, hair extensions and super glue.
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The biggest thing to remember is to moisturize, and you can use a leave in conditioner. The easiest thing is to keep hair very short. If your boy has longer hair, then follow the advice given for girls. Cornrows can look very good on boys. Black hair is a huge issue of politics, racism, and class.
Hair is how a girl shows status, parental love, and her sense of worth. Caring for black hair takes time and resources, but it is critical in raising your girl. This is a sensitive issue, and one that is a way to show love and racial sensitivity to your child of color.
It made me feel really different. Books have been written about hair care, so I will not pretend to write everything that you need to know. However, these are some things that I found very helpful. If hair is dry, the night before apply coconut oil directly to the hair and then wrap their hair with cloth or a Satin bonnet, we buy them at the dollar store and wash in the morning. Always use ethnic specific shampoo.
Shampoo designed for white hair is far too stripping for black hair. Also, do not shampoo more than once or twice a week at the most.
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You can shower without washing hair, and using a shower cap can be really helpful. Try not to tangle hair as you wash it. After you wash and rinse, apply a leave in conditioner. We like one called Kinky Kurly Knot today a lot, it glides in and works well. We also sometimes use different ones in addition, including leave in conditioners, the thick shea butter lotion, or pomades. Experiment to find out what you like. But the Kinky Kurly works really well before combing out.
Combing - this is critical to do correctly. We use a plastic wide-toothed comb, though some people swear by bristle brushes.
Separate the wet and conditioned hair into sections, and comb each section starting from the bottom and work towards the roots. Work out knots with your fingers before the comb gets there. For touch ups when your child has her hair out, wet the hair before combing. If you come from a family of people with straight hair, it may be a challenge to learn how to manage thick, curly, and coily hair.
The good news is that this can be learned even if you are the parent who is unfamiliar with black hair due to marriage, adoption, or babysitting. With the natural hair movement becoming increasingly popular, many African American and multiethnic women, as well as men, are also learning the best ways to take care of their naturally curly hair. Type four hair texture is thicker and fuller, but it is not stronger. One mistake individuals make is that they assume because ethnic hair can be coarse, frizzy, and dry, that it can handle rougher treatment, but this is not true.
Actually, African American hair is one of the most delicate and fragile hair types and needs to be handled with tender, loving care. The hair is prone to breakage, and if it is not taken care of properly, it can lead to hair loss or damage. Products for ethnic haircare are usually sold by privately owned companies because most commercial hair products are drying and have harmful chemicals in the ingredients.
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It is especially crucial to pay attention to the delicate strands of your baby's hair. Standard baby products are usually very drying for ethnic hair so it is best to look for products specially formulated for biracial and black babies. Some great brands are:. Many brands have a selection of organic shampoo, conditioner, and leave-in creams.
These hair products can be easily used by spritzing the hair to help rehydrate and soften the curls before detangling. It can be difficult to know how to do your child's hair if you're not aware of products, techniques, and methods that are available to you. Seek advice from other parents or hair care professionals, read books and magazines, and only go on reputable baby care forums. Searching black hair forums online is a good idea because you will get first-hand information from parents in your situation.
No question is a dumb question, and you will get practical tips that you can use and share with others. Applying olive oil to the tips and ends of the baby's hair will help to soften it and prepare it to be combed or braided.
Biracial Baby Hair Care Guide
Frizzy, course, and dry hair on your baby is such a frustrating situation, especially when they are young and do not want to have their hair done. Believe me, they will rather play in their cribs or with toys than sit still to have their hair brushed or combed out. Set aside time for your baby's hair care routine that will allow you time and patience to work with your baby's hair. Try to avoid brushing your baby's hair. If you do use a brush, do so while the hair is wet, and use a natural-bristle baby brush.
As your baby starts to get bigger, the needs of their hair will change. It may be necessary to adjust accordingly with baby hair care routines. Using certified organic jojoba oil will help the hair while the scalp starts to produce its own natural oils. Keeping the hair in braids or twists is one of the least time-consuming styles that may help to protect their hair while you tend to your busy schedule.
Newborns with cradle cap experience flaking similar to dandruff, which can be associated with a hormonal imbalance passed on at birth. The baby's oil glands, also known as seborrheic glands, become overstimulated causing dry flakes that can be treated with special cradle cap shampoo. It is especially important to know how to handle this skin condition if your baby has ethnic hair that is dry. Most sites that recommend frequent shampooing with a mild shampoo are giving broad, general advice and are not addressing individual circumstances.
It is best to get medical advice from a licensed practicing physician if your baby has symptoms that you are not familiar with. Do not diagnose scalp or skin conditions on your own. Get help and expert advice before trying any products made for babies.
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This article is definitely long overdue. Many people are not sure on how to care for a biracial baby's hair, so good job on this one :. This is a great article, and long overdue. I voted up, useful and interesting. I am also facebooking this article because a lot of people don't know how to treat bi-racial hair, and this detailed hub has a lot of answers. Jo - I agree some of the most beautiful people in the world are a mixture of many nationalities.
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Nell- Good thing is that now there is more products to choose from thanks to the internet. Hi, my friend is bi-racial and she used to moan about the lack of products, this is great I will tell her to take a look, thanks nell. I have two nieces that are bi-racial. These are great tips. I love how God brings so much beauty in this world. And we sometimes need to remember this and stop to thank him. God bless! Nan - thanks for sharing your experience I have heard similar stories before, it is great you are taking care of your foster daughters hair, because with tender loving care it will grow back beautifully.
EarthAngel - I always enjoy your comments, I agree that Nahla will most likely be a stunner maybe even a supermodel when she grows up. Ocbilll - This is good to hear because I know where I live it is hard to find quality hair products for ethnic textured hair I usually have to order everything online.